[tanyaluvver]

Yesterday i asked Hayley if she wanted to meet up at weekend, she said yes, then she suddenly told me today that her best friend is sleeping over all weekend. Then I asked her if she wanted to come round for tea after school this week some time, she said no, then when she had to go I told her Ill fone her later and she said dont because weve talked on here and we can't over do it. Then I said we aint over doing it, and she covered up her face and said 'just a little tip dont talk to me when am annoyed'. so im sat here thinking what the ****! She said sorry for telling me not to talk to her, but I'm getting the feeling she doesn't want to see me. This has really upset me and I don't know what to do! I mean it was only Saturday we had our first cuddle. And, I can't get why she would break our arangements... This is messed up. I'd really appreciate help.

Sorry for the long post!

[Lost_Prophet]

This girl doesn't sound so nice...
Me personally, I would move on...a girl who says "just a little tip dont talk to me when am annoyed" is just plain rude.

[tanyaluvver]

No, this is the first time that has happened. And she has never been like this before. That's the weird thing. Me and her are always going on about how much we want to see each other, and then she goes and breaks the plans and sees her friend ALL WEEKEND. To be honest, her friend sleeping over Friday and Saturday night sounds to me like she doesn't want to see me. This is what she actually said (for the different weird parts lol)

[17:13:36] (l)(f)(l)Hay: did u say u wanted 2 meet up again at
weekend
[17:13:37] (l)(f)(l)Hay: ?
[17:13:52] (l)(l) HAYLE: sarah will be with me
[17:13:55] (l)(l) HAYLE: lol
[17:14:00] (l)(f)(l)Hay: kk
[17:14:07] (l)(f)(l)Hay: what all weekend?
[17:14:07] (l)(l) HAYLE: maybe

[20:20:12] (l)(f)(l)Hay: aww i wanna ask if u wanna come round 4 tea
sumtime this week. but i think its annoyin u that i wanna
see you all the time. so sorry if i am
[20:20:35] (l)(l) HAYLE: no u not
[20:20:45] (l)(f)(l)Hay: good
[20:21:07] (l)(f)(l)Hay: it just felt like i was i dno why?
[20:21:18] (l)(f)(l)Hay: lol
[20:21:34] (l)(l) HAYLE: but soz i dnt wana

[20:44:16] (co)mykal(l): ill call u later yeah?
[20:44:20] (co)mykal(l): or try hehe
[20:44:51] (l)(l) HAYLE: nahit ok we talked that all we need lets not
ova do i love you miss u
[20:44:54] (l)(l) HAYLE: soz
[20:45:14] (co)mykal(l): ...oh
[20:45:14] (co)mykal(l): ok

[20:47:16] (l)(l) HAYLE: nah nowt is ur fault dnt say soz but here is
a useful tip if i moody or really stressed id leave me
alone
[20:47:17] (l)(l) HAYLE: lol
[20:47:19] (l)(l) HAYLE: for a bit
[20:47:29] (co)mykal(l): oh
[20:47:36] (co)mykal(l): well. i didnt no u was did i

[Lost_Prophet]

Like I said...plain rude.

[tanyaluvver]

But we've never been like this before...

[Lost_Prophet]

But she is now, it honestly seems to me that she doesn't want to see you (IMO)
Listen I'm not here to put you down I'm just trying to help, I don't want to see you get hurt...

[tanyaluvver]

It's ok, I know your helping, and I thank you . I just can't see it being that though.

[Lost_Prophet]

She keeps avoiding seeing you or talking to you...yet in the past you used to see each other alot.
Looks like she's the confused one =P

[tanyaluvver]

Heh, but this is all in a day. Plus she is having a bit of a prob with her dad (which could explain it) but I am helping her with that.

[Lost_Prophet]

Could be that she's just caught in the confusion with her dad and her feelings are everywhere.

[Lorn]

Maybe you should just give her a little space... I know I'm not particularly good at giving advice, but idk... if she wants space to sort out her problems, where's the problem in giving it?

(If someone gives better advice, discount this)

[Lost_Prophet]

Yea just "back off" a little but not so much that you avoid her.

[tanyaluvver]

But we hardly ever see each other at school, and we haven't seen each other that much outside school either. But it's sorted now, thanks for the help.