[Sway_C]

ok, sorry this is a bit of a long whinge, but needed to let it out sumwhere lol, and i've tried to make it make sense...but was differcult.
Anyhu...

I'm really being bugged by alot of people right now (BOYS!!) and i just have to get mah stress out lol, so here we go...

Right well firsty i split up with my ex a few months ago, and we were friends, and i went out with this other lad a few weeks after, but he was a bit of a playa so that ended, but through out all of that my ex had kept pickin faults with the boy i was dating, and saying how much he liked me still, and he wishes i would dump my b/f to be with him and all that, and i felt under alot of pressure, and everyone was bugging me to go back out with him, but after me and my b/f split up, i told him i needed a while, IF i was gonna get back with anyone, but he kept buggin me and buggin me, for once though, i was strong and told him just to back off and leave me alone basically, which is new, because usually i am a push over and will do wateva i can to please people, because for me, everyone elses happiness should come before my own. Anyway i still have this annoyin ex buggin me, even though it was atleast 5 months ago i dumped him. Also the playa boyfriend claims he fancys me still, but he dont bug me (thank god! ! ! )
but that isnt the end of it... i got to no this quite hardnut guy that went to my school (before getting expelled) and anyway i just planned on being mates wif him..nothing more..but then he developed a crush on me and at first he was very pushy, always on at me to meet him alone, and to sneak out my house at night with him...i didnt...but he kept asking and asking, so i made it clear to him i just wanted to be friends, and he calmed down but slowely he is talkin about me giving him a chance and all that, but what worrys me is he is known to be violent, he is 3 years older than me (16), he expects alot from girls...and im only 13...and the main thing is...he has been accused of rape and puttin a guy in a concussion am i just being silly ? or am i right to be a bit worried? While this was all happening...2 boys have been buggin me to go out with them aswell and i have found myself making excuses to not go around with them anymore, as they go on about it...and one is 2 years younger than me, and i wouldnt want to go out with him, and one is just not my type, but i hate hurtin people.... and i have found out my mates friend like me too...but he dont want anyone to no, which is fine by me, as i cant take on anymore pressure to please people =(

How would u lot handle this? and i am sorry about my moan...bet your all dead with boredem now lol

[chickmagnet24]

well, in my hometown (West Virginia) when exs do tht to each other the boy/girl's friend will take up for them and tell them to bug off. if tht doesnt work then a fight will probably break out and then someone gets hurt. then the ex finally gets the idea and goes and find someone else to bug. ive had to do tht for a couple before. my friend (girl) was being bugged by her ex so i just went up to him and told him to shut up and leave her alone, he did for about 2 weeks and started back on her, so i then got him in a corner and beat the **** out of him and he hasnt bugged her since. i think he has a nother girl now but she isnt my friend so some one else will do tht i gess.

hope tht helped some. u seem like a very nice girl. and about tht guy. if he is really charged w/ all tht stuff u shouldnt be haging around him and he'll ruin ur reputation. weve had tht happen before here to.

[I_ROCK]

I've been in that situation with 2 girls, I ended up bein the toy in a game of 'tug of war' it wasn't nice, they ended up fightin. I didn't know who to choose because they both had some of the same qualities and some different. Which made it harder.

I told them both that I had enough. I couldn't take the pressure and that I didn't want either of them. When really I wanted both of them but that wouldn't be right.

We all moved on.

I think u should tell them all that u're not lookin for a relationship right now. Tell them 'No!' to make it clear for them to understand.

I don't think u should be hangin around with that 'Hardnut guy' because u never know if what people are sayin about him are true. I don't think u should take that risk.

[NuGgAnS]

Originally Posted by Sway_C

ok, sorry this is a bit of a long whinge, but needed to let it out sumwhere lol, and i've tried to make it make sense...but was differcult.
Anyhu...

I'm really being bugged by alot of people right now (BOYS!!) and i just have to get mah stress out lol, so here we go...

Right well firsty i split up with my ex a few months ago, and we were friends, and i went out with this other lad a few weeks after, but he was a bit of a playa so that ended, but through out all of that my ex had kept pickin faults with the boy i was dating, and saying how much he liked me still, and he wishes i would dump my b/f to be with him and all that, and i felt under alot of pressure, and everyone was bugging me to go back out with him, but after me and my b/f split up, i told him i needed a while, IF i was gonna get back with anyone, but he kept buggin me and buggin me, for once though, i was strong and told him just to back off and leave me alone basically, which is new, because usually i am a push over and will do wateva i can to please people, because for me, everyone elses happiness should come before my own. Anyway i still have this annoyin ex buggin me, even though it was atleast 5 months ago i dumped him. Also the playa boyfriend claims he fancys me still, but he dont bug me (thank god! ! ! )
but that isnt the end of it... i got to no this quite hardnut guy that went to my school (before getting expelled) and anyway i just planned on being mates wif him..nothing more..but then he developed a crush on me and at first he was very pushy, always on at me to meet him alone, and to sneak out my house at night with him...i didnt...but he kept asking and asking, so i made it clear to him i just wanted to be friends, and he calmed down but slowely he is talkin about me giving him a chance and all that, but what worrys me is he is known to be violent, he is 3 years older than me (16), he expects alot from girls...and im only 13...and the main thing is...he has been accused of rape and puttin a guy in a concussion am i just being silly ? or am i right to be a bit worried? While this was all happening...2 boys have been buggin me to go out with them aswell and i have found myself making excuses to not go around with them anymore, as they go on about it...and one is 2 years younger than me, and i wouldnt want to go out with him, and one is just not my type, but i hate hurtin people.... and i have found out my mates friend like me too...but he dont want anyone to no, which is fine by me, as i cant take on anymore pressure to please people =(

How would u lot handle this? and i am sorry about my moan...bet your all dead with boredem now lol

holy ****!! in a concusion??thats messed up!!!
sounds like a lil bitch steven i know...anywhho back to this
umm and rape? do u even wanna go with either? i wouldnt cause ones 11 and ones 16 that 16 yr old is going to beat the **** out of the 11 yr old and could hurt him more then just emotionaly but anywho your call...

[NuGgAnS]

probably not smart to quate the whole thing eh?

[Sway_C]

Thanks everyone, i have made it all clear to them now i dont want to go out with anyone at this very mo, and probs not for a while.

I would ask my friends to help me, but the hardnut's gone and got my mate on his side, to make her feel sorry for him, and push me into goin out with him (grr)

Thanks everyone, i thought most people would just tell me to grow up and not moan about boys *wanting me* or w/e....but thanks =D

charly xxxxxxxx

[chickmagnet24]

ur welcome thts what were here for.