[Sexi_babe]

OK heres my story... (sorry if i go on )


OK well i had been talking to this boy on msn for about 2 months,he goes to m school but i had never saw him before.Anyway we started talking on the net and started to get to know each other.....He started telling me he really liked me... and if i would talk to him in school and i was like yeah ok.

When school came... i was really nervous of seeing him,i dont know why i think i started to like him,when he saw me he would call my name,but id pretend that i didnt hear him cus i was too nervous.Anyway i did start talking to him then.. not a convo or anythin jus hi how ya doin ect,and we started huggin.Dis is when i really started to like him.Then i thought ye i wanna go out wiv him so we went out. we went out for about 4 weeks,and it was the best,i only saw him for 40 mins at dinner,but we didnt let go of each other wen we did.Anyway 1 day he came on msn after school sayin that hes really sorry but he wants to be single,that it wasnt me but he just didnt want to be in a relationship.I was realy upset as u can imagine,but i didnt want to annoy him or anythin so i said ok fair enough.

For about 2 weeks after that we didnt really talk much on msn.But recently we've started talking more like we used to,and hes started calling me babe like he did wen we went out,and saying he luvs me wen one of us has to go..What i want to know is does he still like me?? Cus i still really like him,and ive told him i still love him.

But yesterday my mate asked him (on msn) if he still likes me,he sed he did like me,then she was asking all these questions and i think he told me he got confused..so weather he meant to say he used to like me or weather its true and he dont like me no more.... thats wat got me thinkin.

so what do you guys think?? does he still like me? I would like to go back out with him.... but i dont want to ask him out,if that makes sense,i dunno y but im not 1 for asking ppl out.plz help

[QueTeImporta]

of course he does if he tells u that he luvs u!

[-3n1gm4-]

Originally Posted by QueTeImporta

of course he does if he tells u that he luvs u!

i have 2 disagree this time...love may be friend love,or he may be trying not to hurt her too bad.my xgf said she loved me,now i know she had no clue what real love is...

[Sinful_Smile]

Hm hard one...
Maybe he does? Maybe he just genuinly didn't want to be in a relationship...
Talk through it with him, ask him how he feels. Communication is the key ~.o

[Queen_of_dreams]

Originally Posted by Sinful_Smile

Hm hard one...
Maybe he does? Maybe he just genuinly didn't want to be in a relationship...
Talk through it with him, ask him how he feels. Communication is the key ~.o

I rly agree wit this ideal.
U must be more confident in front of him. Ask him bout his true affection. Remember that U shouldnt talk bout it on net, face 2 face n talk bout it is much better. If he tells lie, I guess U can see it.
For me, I think this guy is not reliable. Have u ever listened 2 this song "Karma- alicia keys" ? I think its suitable for u at the moment.
Good luck!

[Sexi_babe]

I guess i could talk it through with him,but i don't think we'll talk in school now,he don't know any on my friends,and i dont really know any of his that well,so really he wont have an excuse to come over.

[Queen_of_dreams]

anywhere as long as face to face U know.

[Sexi_babe]

I'm too shy though!! i always freak out when im with any of my bfs that ive had

[Queen_of_dreams]

Ah I understand. By the way, U dun havta look into his eyes when U say though. Just need 2 be beside of each other when talk bout it. Cuz Its rly important rite?
But In fact Its much easier for u 2 realize he tells lie or not when U look into his eyes when He talks. Do ya understand?
Try!

[Sexi_babe]

yeah i understand what your saying... ill see how things go monday,i dont want to just walk up to him and blurt it out in his face if you get me,so ill just see what happens

thanks for responses

[Queen_of_dreams]

Good luck 2 u with love Laura

[Sexi_babe]

OK the whole ill talk to him monday thing went down the drain.....we didnt come within 1 foot of each other,i dont think we even looked at each other.Why are we like this?? when we are gud mates on the net.

Recently he has been saying that his horny,and how he would like me to giv him head and things like that,when he says this he really turns me on and i do want to do it with him,but i know in reality i don't,or when the time came i would freak out.

i don't know weather he just says all this stuff to me or he actually means it!!

[Alison]

Wait a minute, I'm guessing you are just friends right? But he says he wants you to give him head? To me, that kinda sounds as if he's just a little horny ****er lol.

If you talk about doing sex stuff online maybe that's all he wants from you? Or maybe he's too shy? Or maybe he wants you to make the first move rather than him?

You don't need to give him head just to please him, especially if you don't want to do it in the first place.

Anyway, does he mean it? Possibly, possibly not. If you want to know whether he actually means it or not you're going to have to talk to him when he's by himself at some point and preferably not on the net as people can hide.

[Sexi_babe]

so you think that hes saying hes horny and wants to do stuff with me to see what i say,and if he likes the results he'll get bac with me?

[Sexi_babe]

lol,i dont know weather hes shy or not,but he knows i still like him,and he asked me out face to face last time so i don't think hes shy.We've never really talked about stuff before,but he just started talking about it 1 night asking me if i would ever give him a bj and i was saying i dunno but then he was really turning me on so i was saying yes,and he was saying how he wasnt forcing me at all he just wanted to know.Then he was asking me to meet up with him or asking if he could come to mine while my parents where out.

I dont know weather he means it or not,i would like to believe he did but i cant.I seen him hug a girl today at school and everything ran through my head 'what if hes going out with her?what if hes just been saying all that stuff cus he felt like it? what if he wants to make a real twat out of me? but then i thought i was just being stupid and jealous,cus i hugged other boys.