[Areswen]

Ok, I haven't posted in a really long time. I got to be elite, and I stopped, but right now I want to talk.

Ok, on Sunday was 7 months for me and my boyfriend. I'm 16, and Jesse is 15. We are both Christian, and we met at church, and he lives half and hour away, so I used to only see him at church for Sunday mornings and Wednsday nights. Well since it is summer Youth Group is moved to Sunday mornings; and Jesse has been coming over to my house usually on Sundays so we don't have to make two trips there. He lives a block away from the church whereas I live 20 miles away. On Sundays he can come over with me and my family and his Dad doesn't have to drive him.

Ok, well this past Sunday he came over like normal now. Well, it was really hot, and we had to go to a neighbors house for a graduation open house. We really didn't want to, but my Mom did. Well, we ate food, then we were sitting away from everyone on this outdoor couch. We always talk about getting married, and I have this joke: I say, 'Hey, make sure you invite me to your wedding someday.' Then he says, 'Oh, of course! Cuz you'll be in it!' Haha, I know, a 16yr old and a 15 yr old. How serious are they. Or retarded, whichever way you look at it.

Well, since you do always talk about getting married and moving to Prince Edward Island, Canada, I didn't think anything of it when he asked me what would I say if he asked me to marry him. I said, 'Yes, in a heartbeat. Less then a heartbeat.' The he paused and said, 'Ok, stupid question: do you get engaged and then ask to marry me, or do you ask to marry me, then get engaged?' I said the latter one. Then hes like, 'Well, will you marry me?'

You couldn't believe my shock! LIke I know we talk about getting married all the time, so even though he aske dme those two questions I still didn't think anything of it.

Then we got home a little after, and were completely alone, and we were making out a bunch. Ok, Jesse is the shyest guy on earth, like hands down. And well, he finally got up my shirt , for the first time on Sunday. Lol. Anyways, I love him, and I am engaged to him, and I just wanted to tell everyone.

[Sparkling.Roses.]

I don't know how to respond to your post.. but i think if you are in love do what you know that feels the best for the both of you.

[lizzie0602]

that is so sweet.... the best of luck to you both! xxx

[luxter]

well i thought this was spose to be a forum for help with ur relationship probs not braggin bout how great urs is :P nah jk good luck

[Areswen]

lol, I know its for help, but where else was I supposed to put this. I do love him so much. I don't get to see him as much as I would like, and we usually see each other at church, where we can't do anything, but just being with him is heaven. I love him.

[Lt. Kettch]

It makes a nice change to hear about a successful relationship for once.

But fifteen? Jesse certainly seems to plan ahead.

[Alison]

Awww, good luck. I know how you feel, I was 14 when I got engaged after 7 months of going out with my boyfriend. After 2 years we moved in to a house together. We've been going out together for 2 years and 9 months. We're going to have been going out for 3 years soon

[gossipgirl]

congrats bout da engagement!

i hope everything will work well! best of luck for u both!

i reckon it's sooooo sweet... awwwww lol

[Sparkling.Roses.]

I'm glad that you got everything sorted, yeah congrats and yeah it's sweet

[Krofh]

heh, congratulations.. it's a great feeling to be able to find someone who matches you that well at that age
- Matt

[Areswen]

Lol thanks everyone, and you too Jon. You know about Jesse. You are all positive, whereas on this other forum, I copied and pasted what I put here, so they were exactly alike, and everyone there was saying I was an idiot, that all I had was young love, I didn't know what love really is, that I've thrown my life away, and that I am a slut. Whats weirder is that both sites, rouseindahouse and teenhavon are both placed in England, and everyone I talk to on both sites are English and on both sites I am 'The American.' Lol, how weird!

[Alison]

Originally Posted by Areswen

that all I had was young love, I didn't know what love really is, that I've thrown my life away

Yeah, I've certainly got that when I've told other people my story. The only way they'll believe that me and my boyfriend are meant to be is if we get married which we don't plan to do for 4ish more years.

It's pathetic though that people are like that.

[FlameBoy]

ahwww congrats, thats a nice story =)

[Areswen]

I saw him tonight. I was so happy. I had a really stressful day today, and even though I only saw him for about half an hour, it really meant alot to see him. I really do love him, and just being with him always makes me feel better. *raises shoulders while putting on a goofy smile and looks around like a little kid with chocolate.* lol.

[Russell2go]

yknow this could still be advice lol
nice to meet ya areswen! and congrats!