[NOT PERFECT]

Well you see me and the guy i like where "talkin".(we were basicly trying to get to know each other before we started a relationship.) We were talking for a few months and i was pretty sure everything was going great.Then we got in an argument over some stupid junk and it just hasn't been the same. Before the srgument if you saw us together you would think we were already a couple, thats just how close we were. Well things aren't going good for us now. He told me a few days ago that he wasn't ready for a girlfriend and he just wanted to be friends. I dont understand how he could change his mind so quickly. Im also kinda scared he just told me that so he wouldn't have to tell me the truth... that he may like someone else. I dont understand ... can you help?

[Cyparagon]

How would we know anything? he's the only one that has all of your answers. We can only guess and speculate - your best option is to ask him.

[GangsterLike]

Originally Posted by Cyparagon

How would we know anything? he's the only one that has all of your answers. We can only guess and speculate - your best option is to ask him.

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[Sarah!]

I don't really know the guy but I could try to help.
What was the arguement about? Thats important.
If you are really worried about where you guys stand why don't you ask him. Maybe that is what he is waiting for. You can't go around exspecting everything is roses.

[solepureskillz]

If he can't be completely honest with you and accept w/e you think of him, he's not your "one". Also, that argument might have made him believe that your not his "one".

I usually don't recomend this, but if you really want him ... just seduce him. Worked on my friend, now he's eating out of the palm of the girl's hands. (poor guy ...)

[oreo]

i would suggest talking to him and asking him to be straight out and tell him you wanna know cuz you will understand if that is the case. and that you care about him but there is no point in waiting for him if there is no chance.

[Nightmare15]

Yep, my only advice is to talk to him about it. Maybe he really just isin't ready for a girlfriend. :?

[shadowed_girl]

sometimes not being ready for a girlfriend is exactly what they mean. ive done it. thought i was ready for a boyfriend and we got to know each other, and then i realised i just didnt want to be tied down at the time. you could be looking into it to far.

but as said, the only way to really find out is ask. maybe he doesnt want to hurt you so he told you that, but then again that shows he at least cares. no, he shouldnt lie, but still. or maybe it means what it means. just ask him, be straight forward.. a lot of guys find that attractive =]