[confusedchic]

on august 21st i got my period.. a week later it was gone.. my boyfriend didnt no this..
he came over august 28th and woke me up.. we snuggled and then.. had unprotected sex. but we didnt really consider it sex cuz it was in and out and then we were done.. i told him i couldnt do it. He told me he didnt go in me and i didnt feel him go in me...
now a month later- i havent gotten my period... i also have a cold so my mom said that can delay it.. its been 4 days after my due date.. i plan to take a pregnancy test on friday..
should i wait to take my pregnancy test on friday?
or should i take it sooner..



my bodys still acting like im gonna get my period..
but when your pregnant do you get discharge?
mines really bad and is acting like it does usually when i get my period..
HELP!

[Alison]

I think you should take a pregnancy test... and I think you should take it as soon as you can.

You might not be pregnant but there's no harm in taking a test to make sure.

[Ford]

you should take a pregnancy test

[el9393]

do you get your period every month on the exact date??
if u often dont get it on the same date evey month than u might not be pregnant but u should take a test anyway

[Lady Stilton]

"we snuggled and then.. had unprotected sex. but we didnt really consider it sex cuz it was in and out and then we were done.. i told him i couldnt do it. He told me he didnt go in me and i didnt feel him go in me"

What the fuck?

If he didn't go in you, then there's no issue...

Do you mean he didn't cum in you? If that's what you meant, precum is just as dangerous, so it's no excuse.

[Lt. Kettch]

precum is just as dangerous

Judging by your choice of words, I'm guessing you don't want kids any time soon, Gabby

[Lady Stilton]

I don't want kids, period.

[Jenn.]

I'm confused as well, obviously if you didn't actually have sex then you can't be pregnant... but if he just didn't cum in you then you certainly can be pregnant.

4 days isn't long, and personally I know if I'm going to be getting my period soon. I know my own body enough to be able to tell. It seems to me that you know you'll get it soon, so I honestly wouldn't worry until a week. Then I would go and get a pregnancy test to be safe.

Lesson to be learned: get on birth control.

[Lick_Tomato]

I read it a few times, and I think she's talking about the cumming in her.
I won't repeat what others said above me, but just know IF you aren't pregnant, consider yourself lucky and let's hope it taught you for future humps.

[Alison]

Originally Posted by confusedchic

but we didnt really consider it sex cuz it was in and out and then we were done..

To me, that suggests that they did have sex.

Originally Posted by confusedchic

He told me he didnt go in me and i didnt feel him go in me...

And I would take from this that he didn't "cum" in her and she didn't feel him "cum" in her.


?????

[Lick_Tomato]

Well obviously.

[Jenn.]

That makes more sense Alison, thanks for clearing that up!

Okay, I'll rephrase my reply now. Its certainly possible for you to be pregnant, chances are not as high if he didn't cum in you, but there is defiantly still a chance. I'd go get a pregnancy test right away, just to settle my nerves about it. The sooner you find out, the better.

[chrisgboyle]

well take the test and hope for the best.

[asoundian]

I agre you should take a pregnancy test right away. And besides usually your period never starts on the exact day. (I know for a fact mine does not) I didn' start this time until like two weeks after i was suppose to..... So it's no biggy if you don't start when your suppose to.

[Nightmare15]

I doubt you're pregnant. But even if you do get your period, you could still be pregnant. I know three people that still get their period, and they're 5 or 6 months pregnant. I know that doesn't sound right, but it is true.
So take the test, it can't hurt.